Communicate.

Support my opps, and you are an opp.

If you don't fw me, then don't interact w me.

If I block you, give me space and don't try to reach out.

Do not talk about me behind my back.

Don't leave/demote me.

Separate the alters from each other.

If you are a pedophile, proshipper, groomer, comshipper, endogrenic system or problematic person, DO NOT interact with me.

We only call if we're really close to you, so if we don't call, it isn't personal; we just don't like calls. If we don't text you, it also isn't personal. Because of our depression, we might have difficulty going to school, calling people, texting people, etc.

I have communicated my boundaries and interaction rules, so if you break them, you are actively being a bad person!

Communicate. You must communicate boundaries and things you are uncomfortable with. If you don't communicate these things, and anger builds up, it is then not my fault if we have a falling out. If I do something you don't like or you don't like me, tell me. If you don't, it is out of my hands and is therefore your fault since I communicated this rule to you via this carrd. This also applies to anything relating to physical contact. If I go too far EVER, tell me immediately.

Support my opps, and you are an opp. If you support someone who did something bad to me, you are not my friend. There are a few people I do not support, and if you support them after what they've done to me and others, DNI. These people include but are not limited to: Annie Snow (she is an irl rapist), Logan (he is a sa'er and a pedophile), Emm (he is a sociopath who hurts others), and more.

If you don't fw me, then don't interact with me. Some people don't fw me, but continue to interact with me or pretend to be friends with me. If you don't fw me, tell me, even if it is just an alter (if you are a system). This also goes with rule 1, if you don't fw me, COMMUNICATE! If you continue to interact with me, but you talk shit about me, or you don't like me, you ARE the asshole.

If I block you, give me space and don't try to reach out. If I block you, it is usually because you triggered me, or I have built up resentment for you. If I block you, wait. If I ever unblock you, it usually means that we're good and I just need a few days of a break.

Do not talk about me behind my back. If you have a problem with me or anything you want to say, say it to my face instead of complaining about me to others. As mentioned in rule 1, if you don't communicate your distress to me clearly (because I have social issues and a lack of situational understanding), you are the asshole, not me.

If you ever leave or demote me, I may have an episode where I think you did something horrible to me. I am not being manipulative; I genuinely believe that you did something bad to me. In the past, I have had delusional episodes because I am convinced people do bad things to me after they abandon me. I am warning you that I cannot control this or make any promises. No matter how close you think we are, if you abandon me, there is always a possibility that I'll hate you, or I will think you did something horrible to me that you didn't do. Please proceed with understanding and try to offer me a helping hand, rather than hating on me. It will pass, but it may take months at the most.

Separate the alters from each other. There are some alters (like Sunny, for example) that harbor opinions unique to themselves that may be extremely harmful, but so far, those alters are all in therapy, and we are focusing on making sure they don't have those beliefs anymore. So, if you see an alter with a very harmful opinion, please note that they are getting help and other alters DO NOT agree with them.

If you are a pedophile, proshipper, groomer, comshipper, endogrenic system or problematic person, DO NOT interact with me. I do not want any of you even talking to me. Sunny might attempt to reach out to you because of her beliefs and need to be re-victimized, but the rest of us will not stand for it. You can interact with us if you want help or advice to stop problematic behaviors, though.

We only call if we're really close to you, so if we don't call, it isn't personal; we just don't like calls. If we don't text you, it also isn't personal. Because of our depression, we might have difficulty going to school, calling people, texting people, etc.

I have communicated my boundaries and interaction rules, so if you break them, you are actively being a bad person!